About Love
The Intelligence of Love in us
Love does not come. Love does not go.
Love is!
Love neither makes blind, nor does it hurt. Love is clear and precise. She opens our eyes to what is essential, and is uniquely effective at making the seemingly impossible possible.
Love – despite the common romantic definition – is the feminine expression of a universal force that connects us all and of which we are a part. Presence is the masculine expression of this force. In presence, love can expand and become tangible. Every human being carries both forces within him or her. A good balance between masculine and feminine power in us leads to balance in all our areas of life and relationships.
When we truly love, we no longer doubt. We know. We know what we really want. And that it is possible. When we love, then we are ready to commit ourselves with skin and hair to this experience. No matter which one! I can love another person. An idea, an equation, a business. I can love life, the moment and myself. Love always begins within me. And when I really love, I bring forth heaven through me into this unique world of opposites.
I bring it into this body and into all of the earthly adventure, passion, sexuality, creations and changes that can still so powerfully trigger my butt out of my pants sometimes. I give myself away. To me. And to you. When I really love. And I do!
We need
new Stories
- 1. that tell us about love, how and what it really is.
- 2. that encourage us to be fully ourselves and to be here with all of it
- 3. that explain to us that nothing and no one out there can give us what we do not first find within ourselves
- 4. which make us realize that relationships between people succeed permanently when they are supported by a third force of which we are a part
- 5. which suggest that the world outside can only ever show what we tell ourselves about it
- 6. that teach us how to reconnect with ourselves and the love within us
- 7. that support us in going within
- 8. that move us into love instead of away from her by scaring us, setting us on false trails, and suggesting meaningless goals
When we fall in love
A Sneak Preview of Love
When we fall in love with another person, we experience a kind of ‘sneak preview’, a mini preview, a peek through the keyhole into the space of love. We feel so great and powerful that we could unhinge the world. Everything seems beautiful and possible to us. Nothing takes us out of balance. As long as the other person, we have fallen in love with, gives us all the attention and affirmation he/she gives us in the phase of being in love. As soon as he/she withdraws it, the magic is over. And love seems to be over. This is not love. But maybe the biggest misunderstanding of mankind.
Love is not dependent on what another person does or does not do, says or does not say, whether he/she is with me or not. Love is free, clear and true. Her favorite thing is to give herself away.
Love springs from the connection with my body and my heart. And my heart connects me to the part of me that is so much more than my body. Some call it quantum field. Others say God. For me, it is my inner being – called love. This love creates worlds.
When two people share her, they create universes together.
‘Jaws’
and other Stories
We can’t help but wake up and question all the bullsh** stories of the Great White Shark and Co. that give us that queasy feeling of an incalculable danger every time we swim out. What we see in the world today is the product of the thoughts we thought yesterday. If we want to see something new tomorrow, we need minds that think new thoughts today. This feat will not be accomplished by our minds alone. We must learn to see and hear with the eyes and ears of our hearts. Then we begin to see, to hear and to understand. That is love!
Inner Male & Inner Female
we need each other
At some point in our lifes, it happens for each of us that our inner woman and inner man find a balance with each other. This is the moment when we make peace within and with ourselves. It is the moment when heart and mind stop competing and combine. The heart begins to lead and the mind begins to relax and serve its heart mission.
Whenever we find balance within ourselves, we end up in love. In us. And consequently, in all our relationships. We need each other. In ourselves. And in the world. And we really begin to
dance with each other, when each of us can stand freely and truly in and for ourselves. Then love becomes the music, the rhythm and the beat for our hearts, bodies and axes, connecting in the dance.
As a result
- 1. our relationships heal
- 2. our conflicts end
- 3. our exhaustion exhausts itself
- 4. our children find their paths
- 5. our diseases heal
- 6. our nature, our economies, our sexuality and our finances heal heilen
- 7. we return to our senses in the truest sense of the word
- 8. Heaven and Earth combine – NOW
“It is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the doing.”
— Mother Theresa
Our world is full of things. Many of them we do not really need to be happy. Our world is also full of doing. Much of it just distracts us from what truly matters to us. Life is currently giving us an opportunity to draw a balance. What is allowed to stay? What is allowed to go? Where do we give ourselves away freely? What deserves our attention and love? What will sustain in a new world is everything that contains love. Everything else will go. No matter whether it is relationships, companies, structures, products, services or words.