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About Love

The Intelligence of Love in us

Love does not come. Love does not go.

Love is!

Love neither makes blind, nor does it hurt. Love is clear and precise.  She opens our eyes to what is essential, and is uniquely effective at making the seemingly impossible possible.

Love – despite the common romantic definition – is the feminine expression of a universal force that connects us all and of which we are a part. Presence is the masculine expression of this force. In presence, love can expand and become tangible. Every human being carries both forces within him or her. A good balance between masculine and feminine power in us leads to balance in all our areas of life and relationships.

When we truly love, we no longer doubt. We know. We know what we really want. And that it is possible. When we love, then we are ready to commit ourselves with skin and hair to this experience. No matter which one! I can love another person. An idea, an equation, a business. I can love life, the moment and myself. Love always begins within me. And when I really love, I bring forth heaven through me into this unique world of opposites.

I bring it into this body and into all of the earthly adventure, passion, sexuality, creations and changes that can still so powerfully trigger my butt out of my pants sometimes. I give myself away. To me. And to you. When I really love. And I do!

We need
new Stories

  1. 1. that tell us about love, how and what it really is.
  2. 2. that encourage us to be fully ourselves and to be here with all of it
  3. 3. that explain to us that nothing and no one out there can give us what we do not first find within ourselves
  4. 4. which make us realize that relationships between people succeed permanently when they are supported by a third force of which we are a part
  1. 5. which suggest that the world outside can only ever show what we tell ourselves about it
  2. 6. that teach us how to reconnect with ourselves and the love within us
  3. 7. that support us in going within
  4. 8. that move us into love instead of away from her by scaring us, setting us on false trails, and suggesting meaningless goals

As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today I know this is authenticity.
Charlie Chaplin
Love is when you have seen that you are not separate from existence.
Love does not want or fear anything.
Eckhart Tolle
Love is the whole thing. We are only pieces.
As I began to love myself I quit steeling my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm.
Charlie Chaplin
To discover your mission and put it into action – instead of worrying on the sidelines – is to find peace of mind and a heart full of love.
Scilla Elworthy
Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.
Maya Angelou
As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worry about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where EVERYTHING is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it fulfillment.
Charlie Chaplin
Love is not what you do. Love is what you become.
God spare me from the desire for love, approval, and appreciation. Amen.
Byron Katie
Love is life. All, everything that I understand, I understand only because I love.
Leo Tolstoi
Love is not selective, just as the light of the sun is not selective.
Eckhart Tolle
The relationship between men and women has not ended. It has just begun.
Andrea & Veit Lindau
As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But As I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection Wisdom of the Heart.
Charlie Chaplin
Love is a by-product of freedom; it is the overflowing joy of freedom, it is the fragrance of freedom. First the freedom has to be there, then love follows.
Out of love arises a power that stands higher than any other force. But most people confuse love with the desire to own another person, because we are deeply conditioned and trained in the capitalist system – my land, my car, my wife. To rediscover love in its true logic and function is a revolution.
Sabine Lichtenfels
If I love you, what business is it of yours?
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment, so I could be calm. Today I call it self-confidence.
Charlie Chaplin
Love means to recognize yourself in the other.
Eckhart Tolle
When a man truly recognizes a woman, a true miracle takes place within him, the miracle of love and intimacy between two opposite halfs of human kind, who for ages have been wanting to combine and, so far, have always missed each other.
Dieter Duhm
I only drink Champagne on two occasions, when I’m in love, and when I’m not.
Coco Chanel
As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything the drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism.Today I know it is Love of Oneself.
Charlie Chaplin
Love is a flame that burns everything other than itself. It is the destruction of all that is false and the fulfillment of all that is true. Enlightenment is nothing more than the complete absence of resistance to what is. End of story.
Love is the ultimate theme. But it’s not just for women.
Will Smith
If you truly love someone, your love sees past their humanness.
Michael A. Singer
We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born. Today I know that is Life!
Charlie Chaplin
People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.
Nelson Mandela
Each experience of love nudges us toward the Story of Interbeing, because it only fits into that story and defies the logic of Separation.
Charles Eisenstein
Love is no relationship. Love is a state of being. It has nothing to do with another person. You are not in love – you are love. And when you are love yourself, you are certainly also in love. But this is a consequence, a by-product. Not the cause!
Love is the essential reality and our purpose on earth. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in ourselves and others, is the meaning of life. Meaning does not lie in things. Meaning lies in us.
Marianne Williamson
Be love, so much love, that when others are with you, they are love.
Abraham Hicks

When we fall in love

A Sneak Preview of Love

When we fall in love with another person, we experience a kind of ‘sneak preview’, a mini preview, a peek through the keyhole into the space of love. We feel so great and powerful that we could unhinge the world. Everything seems beautiful and possible to us. Nothing takes us out of balance. As long as the other person, we have fallen in love with, gives us all the attention and affirmation he/she gives us in the phase of being in love. As soon as he/she withdraws it, the magic is over. And love seems to be over. This is not love. But maybe the biggest misunderstanding of mankind.

Love is not dependent on what another person does or does not do, says or does not say, whether he/she is with me or not. Love is free, clear and true. Her favorite thing is to give herself away.

Love springs from the connection with my body and my heart. And my heart connects me to the part of me that is so much more than my body. Some call it quantum field. Others say God. For me, it is my inner being – called love. This love creates worlds.

When two people share her, they create universes together.


and other Stories

We can’t help but wake up and question all the bullsh** stories of the Great White Shark and Co. that give us that queasy feeling of an incalculable danger every time we swim out. What we see in the world today is the product of the thoughts we thought yesterday. If we want to see something new tomorrow, we need minds that think new thoughts today. This feat will not be accomplished by our minds alone. We must learn to see and hear with the eyes and ears of our hearts. Then we begin to see, to hear and to understand. That is love!

Inner Male & Inner Female

we need each other

At some point in our lifes, it happens for each of us that our inner woman and inner man find a balance with each other. This is the moment when we make peace within and with ourselves. It is the moment when heart and mind stop competing and combine. The heart begins to lead and the mind begins to relax and serve its heart mission.

Whenever we find balance within ourselves, we end up in love. In us. And consequently, in all our relationships. We need each other. In ourselves. And in the world. And we really begin to

dance with each other, when each of us can stand freely and truly in and for ourselves. Then love becomes the music, the rhythm and the beat for our hearts, bodies and axes, connecting in the dance.

As a result

  1. 1. our relationships heal
  2. 2. our conflicts end
  3. 3. our exhaustion exhausts itself
  4. 4. our children find their paths
  5. 5. our diseases heal
  1. 6. our nature, our economies, our sexuality and our finances heal heilen
  2. 7. we return to our senses in the truest sense of the word
  3. 8. Heaven and Earth combine – NOW

“It is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the doing.”

— Mother Theresa

Our world is full of things. Many of them we do not really need to be happy. Our world is also full of doing. Much of it just distracts us from what truly matters to us. Life is currently giving us an opportunity to draw a balance. What is allowed to stay? What is allowed to go? Where do we give ourselves away freely? What deserves our attention and love? What will sustain in a new world is everything that contains love. Everything else will go. No matter whether it is relationships, companies, structures, products, services or words.

Love is not a rosy heart. Love is the power that creates worlds. Choose wisely!